I would want a strong woman. Someone who knows what she wants, and will strive to get it. I would want someone that is caring and compassionate. I would want someone that does not need to be by my side 24/7. We all need alone time. I am not looking for someone that plays the helpless victim act, and can’t do anything on her own. I know a couple of people like that, and it’s not an attractive feature.

I’m not interested in someone that is addicted. This will include being an alcoholic, drug addict, or even a smoker. Also, someone that gambles is not something I’m interested in. The last thing I need is to hear “If you love me, you would help support my addictions!“. And yes, if I am forced to choose being alone, or supporting someone’s addiction, I would rather be alone than in an unhealthy relationship.